What Does All These Signs Mean From a Guy? Should I Leave?

Question by Virgo1980: What does all these signs mean from a guy? Should i leave?
Weirdest situation:I was recently involved with this guy I used to work with for almost two years.The first year, he pretty much tracked me down through co workers, would call up to my job in the middle of the night, drive by my job for about eight months, so I finally called him, and he tells me that he is not looking for a relationship, and hes been a security officer for ten years, and he also mentions the fact that he has one son, and he watches her other two children while she works nights, who also happens to work for the same company.Even though things didnt seem right, I still got involved,and there were weird things that would happen when I would go over to his apartment, for instance, he would look out windows and doors, he stayed with his roommate, but his room was painted like a childrens room, and he can never really stay out that late, well come to find out his baby mother lives in the same apartment, exaclty downstairs from him, and the apartement is under his name.,his explanation is that he wants to keep an eye on his son because she is unstable, and the children protective services have threatened to take her kids more than once, so he wants to keep an eye out…does this make sense?So we got back together about three months ago, and we went out a few times, and it was always after work which is after 1 o clock or he can only talk at work, or thats when he would answer his phone, and if i called him after 1 o clock, he would turn his phone off, and he would always complain that he doesnt have any cash, he would only pay for things that were cash, and if he received a call, he would step outside,…so I broke it off with him around halloween, but then i tried calling and texting him(because I missed him) to see how he was doing, I even told him I loved him, and I got no response.Everyone keeps asking me ;Why do you keep contacting him? My answer is he keeps prank calling my phone, and putting things on his websites(fake facebook profiles) saying that he loves me, and hes in love with me and misses me, so that makes me call, and thinks he still cares for me, but when I actually try and call he doesnt respond…so why is doing this if he doesnt care?
39 minutes ago – 4 days left to answer.
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another weird thing, is that hes up at 4, 5 o clock in the morning on facebook saying he loves me, or hes in love with me, and he keeps referencing “coke” on his website, in various ways, and I remember when we first met, he mentioned “white powder up her nose” I’m thinking why does he keep mentioning cocaine in scenarios, and on facebook plus…he calls my job, he calls my cell, but just holds the phone, but whenever I try and call him, I get no answer, I dont get it,

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Answer by sarge927
My answer is going to be a lot shorter than your tale — the guy is NOT RIGHT upstairs. Stay away from him, and if he doesn’t get the hint get a restraining order against him.

Answer by ?Raychel?
nice hat hun! 😉

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